The Hebrew noun used for love implies political and diplomatic connections.1 As such, David made a comparison between the loyalty (love) of Jonathan (1 Samuel 19:1; 1 Samuel 20:17) and the loyalty (love) of his sister Michal. Both individuals loved David (1 Samuel 18:20; 1 Samuel 19:1; 1 Samuel 20:17). When they were called to demonstrate their loyalty to David, however, only Jonathan remained loyal (1 Samuel 20:26–34) whereas Michal betrayed David by claiming that he had threatened to kill her if she did not aid his escape (1 Samuel 19:17).
26 I am distressed for you, my brother Jonathan; very pleasant have you been to me; your love to me was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women.