1. 1 Corinthians 7:1 (ESV)
  2. Exposition

Why does Paul write that it is well for a man not to touch a woman?

1 Corinthians 7:1 (ESV)

1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”

In short

Paul writes that it is good for a man not to touch a woman because

  1. he is quoting from a letter from the Corinthians before responding to it; or

  2. he is explaining that it is commendable to remain celibate and not marry.

When Paul says, not to touch a woman, he means refers to sexual intercourse. So he is saying, It is good for a man not to have sexual intercourse with a woman. Why does Paul write such a statement?

Before Paul states, It is good for a man not to touch a woman, he opens with now concerning the matters about which the Corinthians wrote. Paul uses the term to indicate that he is starting a new topic. In fact, Paul explicitly states that he will now comment on topics raised to him by the Corinthians. He then writes, It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Most likely he includes the line as a quote from the letter from the Corinthians. In other words, it’s not Paul’s idea that a man should not have sexual relations with a woman, but the Corinthians’ idea, and Paul will address this.

There are several reasons to think that the notion that it is good for a man not to touch a woman originates with the Corinthians, and not Paul. For one, Paul knows from Genesis 1 that God’s original purpose for humanity is to subdue the earth and multiply. It is hardly possible for humans to multiply without sexual intercourse. Further, Paul knows from Genesis 2 that it was not good for a man to be alone, so God created the woman. For this reason, the man shall leave his parents and cling to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. That the two shall become one flesh means that the two will cooperate, support each other, and demonstrate their love through sexual intercourse.

Further, we know from historical records that the Egyptian Isis cult operated in and around Corinth during the first century. One of the hallmarks of the Isis cult was sexual abstinence, even for married people. Added to this, there is evidence that other religious groups argued similarly. The influence of the Isis cult explains 1 Corinthians 7:2 where Paul says that because of temptation, a man should have his wife, and a wife her husband. His point is not that marriage was instituted because of sexual temptation. We know from Genesis that it is not good for a man to be alone. Rather, Paul responds to the claim that married men should not have sexual relations with their wives by saying that, because of sexual temptation, married people should not abstain unless by agreement and only for a time (1 Cor. 7:5).

Finally, if Paul really did think that it is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman, it is strange for him to immediately follow this up by saying that married people should not abstain. Rather, we would expect Paul to explain that in the power of the Lord, married people can abstain, or something of the sort. Of course, Paul will suggest that single people remain so because of the benefits of celibacy (1 Cor. 7:32–35), but when it comes to married people, Paul explains this is not a good option.

Some think that Paul is sharing his own opinion on marriage and sexual relations. They think that according to Paul, it is good not to marry but because of sexual temptation, people should marry. The notion is that Paul is not asserting a moral imperative, but he is explaining that it’s beneficial not to marry. This view is possible, except for the reasons outlined above.

Most likely, when Paul writes, It is good for a man not to touch a woman, he does so because he quotes or paraphrases from a letter the Corinthians wrote to him.

Interpretation 1:
Paul quotes from a letter from the Corinthians before responding to it.

Summary:

The Corinthians have written to Paul concerning various issues. He now responds to these directly. In order to remind the Corinthians of the issue he is about to address, he quotes from their letter in which they either wrote or inferred that it is good for a man not to touch a woman. Likely the Corinthians thought that even married people should abstain from sexual relations. Paul responds to this suggestion throughout 1 Corinthians 7:2–40 and begins by explaining that married people should not abstain from sexual relations (1 Corinthians 7:2).

Marriage is an important and celebrated aspect of God’s created order. Genesis 2:24 explains that a man should leave his father and mother and cling to his wife. Proper sexual relations within a marriage are a gift from God, and both a means of procreation and a sign of love and affection between marriage partners.

Advocates:

  • Raymond Collins

  • Gordon Fee

  • David Garland

  • Craig Keener

  • Pheme Perkins

  • Anthony Thiselton

Minor differences:

There is a strong consensus among our authors that when Paul writes it is good for a man not to not a woman, this is not his own opinion, but the opinion of the Corinthians to whom he is about to respond. The differences between our authors are minor. For example, David Garland suggests that the line it is good for a man not to touch a woman is a direct quote from the letter from the Corinthians.1 Pheme Perkins, on the other hand, suggests that Paul may have invented the phrase as a slogan that captures the Corinthians view. In this case, Paul does not quote from the Corinthians' letter directly, but he summarises their view in a memorable pithy phrase.2 In either case, the notion that it is good for a man not to touch a woman, represents the Corinthians view, to which Paul responds.

Arguments

Interpretation 2:
Paul explains that it is commendable to remain celibate and not marry.

Summary:

Paul explains that it is better for the Corinthians to be celibate, but because of sexual desires marriage is a fine option. Therefore, to remain celibate is not a moral imperative, but Paul does commend celibacy as preferable.

Advocates:

  • Frederik Grosheide

Arguments